LIMITLESS Leaders Toolkit: Life, Family & Fulfillment-Family Without Children - Balancing a Relationship and Career

Family Without Children - Balancing a Relationship and Career | LIMITLESS Leaders Edition: S1 Ep2

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In Season 1, Episode 2 of the Allergan Limitless Women’s Leadership Podcast, host Ashley Amalfi interviews Dr. Anu Bajaj, a plastic surgeon in private practice, about finding personal balance as a woman leader. Dr. Bajaj shares her unconventional family story: she married at 40, is part of a blended family with four children and three dogs, and has a supportive husband who takes on many home responsibilities, allowing her to pursue a demanding surgical career and leadership roles.<br /><br />She reflects on earlier pressure to fit a traditional mold, including a first marriage that ended because her surgical ambitions and lifestyle conflicted with her husband’s expectations. She also describes being discouraged by family and facing a lack of support during training, which ultimately strengthened her determination. A pivotal moment came when she met other accomplished women who were unmarried and thriving, helping her realize there is no single “right” path.<br /><br />Dr. Bajaj also discusses the challenges of joining a blended family with a medically complex child and how those experiences deepened her empathy as both a person and physician. Her advice to younger women is to choose the path that brings joy, not guilt, and to recognize that success and family can look different for everyone.

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